——有人發明火花這個詞，以便自己能夠不打電話，對你不好，還讓你不聽猜測。然后讓你相信，那種焦慮和害怕的感覺是自然滋生的。這就是火花的真面目。你們卻照單全收，深信不疑。你們熱愛火花這個說法，因為夠跌宕起伏，大家都熱衷戲劇性情節。? Guys invented the spark ，so they could not call and treat you kind of badly and keep you guessing. Then convince you that that anxiety and fear that just develops naturally …was actually just a spark。And you guys all buy it. you eat it up and you love it. you love it because you feed off that drama. you all love drama. you love it because you feed off that drama，you all love that drama . ——我不。 I don’t 。 ——這么說你從未因為暗地里熱愛戲劇性情節而把事情拖到截止日的最后一分鐘，或是收到電話催款單，拿不定主意自己是做還是不做？ So you never wait until the last minute on a deadline or a phone bill，because secretly you love the drama 。of not knowing whether or not you’re gonna make it ？ ——當不久前的那個夜里，當你想著Conor 的時候，你是不是一直都糾結他為什么不打電話？不停來回踱步，老是盯著自己的手機，即使這次約會其實再平常不過了？ Wnen you were stalking Conor the other night were you obsessing about him calling …constantly pacing back and forth ，staring at your phone for days …even though the date was just kind of mediocre？ ——因為你熱衷戲劇性情節。聽著，你應該學學我，如果這姑娘喜歡我，很棒。但如果沒有……天涯何處無芳草？到處是皮膚比她好，胸也比她大的女人。 Because you all thrive on the ?drama. look ，you gotta be more like me。If a girl likes me，great。But if not ，there are plenty more out there like her ，you know ？with smaller pores and bigger implants. ——男人想約你，會自己創造機會，明白？他會邀請你的。我約你了？ If a guy wants to date you ，he will make it happen ，okey？he will ask you out. did I ask you out？ ——女人怎么會這樣？自己產生幻想，把男人做的一些無關緊要的小事，臆變成其它的？太瘋狂了。 Why do women do this？build up this stuff in their minds take each little things a guy does ，and then twist it nito something else？it’s insane。 ——就算那樣也好過你。 I’d rather be like that than be like you. ——什么意思？ What is that supposed to mean？ ——可能是我太專注于小事，太投入了，但至少說明我還在乎。你覺得你贏了，把女人當消耗品？也許你不會受傷或一走了之，但你永遠也得不到真愛。你還是輸。你依然獨身。我是做了很多蠢事，但我知道我離找到比你好的更近了。? I may dissect each little thing and put myself there too much but at least that means I still care 。oh，you think you’ve won because women are expendable to you？you may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way ，but you don’t fall in love that way either 。you’re alone。I may do a lot of stupid shit ，but I know I’m a lot closer to finding someone than you are . ——你于11點的深夜一路而來，只為還我一支促銷筆？ You came all the way here at 11：00at night to brings me back a promotinal pen？ ——我想我該找個好借口過來才行。就是該這么做的，不是嗎？ I thought I should just come up with some really great excuse to get over here. that’s how it’s done ，isn’t it ？ ——有時。 Sometimes。 ——聽著，我無法停止想你。這是個問題。我開車到你的住處，我打了電話又掛斷。 Look，I can’t stop thinking about you 。it’s a problem。I drive by your place ，I call and hang up 。 ——一個聰明人曾經告訴我：要是一個男人想要和一個女孩在一起，無論如何，他會實現它的。 A wise person once told me that if a guy wants to be with a girl he will make it happen ，no matter what。 ——這是真的。 It’s true。 ——但當我對你投懷送抱的時候，你似乎并不想讓它發生。 But when I was hurling my body onto yours ，you did not seem to want to make it happen. ——我必須停止相信，男人會改變。 That I have to stop thinking that every guy will change. ——我真的非常愛你。非常非常。我想要讓你幸福，我必須讓你幸福，我正嘗試著讓你幸福。你會嫁給我嗎？ I love you so much.so much . and I wanna make you happy ，I need to make you happy for me to even have a shot at being happy. Will you marry me？ ——女孩在成長中被教育很多事：要是一個男人揮拳打你，那他喜歡你。永遠不要試著修剪自己的劉海。然后有一天，你會遇見一個完美的男人，然后得到屬于你自己的幸福結尾。? Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up ：if a guy punches you，he likes you 。never try to trim your own bangs。And someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy?ending. ——我們所看到的每部電影，聽到的每個故事懇求著我們駐足等待。第三種扭曲行為：意想不到的愛的宣言，法則的例外。但是有的時候，我們太專注于尋找我們的幸福結局，我們沒有學會如何讀懂信號的跡象。如何辨別誰想要我們，而誰又不想要。誰會留下，而誰又會離開。 Every movie we see ，every story we’re told implores us to wait for it. The third act twist：the unexpected declaration of love. the exception to rule。But sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending ，we don’t learn how to read the signs. How to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t. the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. ——或許這樣的幸福結局，并不包括一個完美的男人。或許只有你憑自己的力量，揀起散落一地的碎片，再重來一遍。為更好的將來，不桎梏你自己。或許幸福的結局只是繼續前行。 And maybe this happy ending doesn’t include a wonderful guy. Maybe it’s you on your own ，picking up the pieces and starting over. Freeing yourself up for something better in the future。Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. ——再或者幸福的結局是這個：了解到所以的未回復來電與破碎的心，通過所有失策與誤讀的信號、通過所有的傷痛與尷尬，你就永遠永遠不會放棄希望。 Or maybe the happy ending is this：knowing that all the unreturned phone calls and broken hearts through all the blunders and misread signals ，through all of the pain and embarrassment，you never ，ever gave up hope. ——我是說，每個人都會犯錯。我已經開始試著弄清我要做什么，我要成為誰？或許現在想這個晚了點，但為什么不呢？為什么不？遲做總比不做好。 I mean， everyone makes mistakes。I’ve started trying to figure out what I wanna do，who I wanna be，you know？priobably seems the wrong time to do that ，but why not ？you know ，why not ？better later than never. ——你知道，我把我的精力專注于自我提高，而不是約會。我不知道，或許約會有一點點自我評價過高。 You know ，what I’ve been focusing my energy on is like a self-discovery，as opposed to dating。I don’t know，maybe dating’s a little overrated.

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